The power of prayer is something I know matters deeply—but if I’m honest, it’s not always my first reaction. When stress hits or something goes wrong, I tend to worry or react before I papausing touse and pray. I know I should turn to God first, but building that habit takes intention. Take the time to water your Holy Spirit to make sure it has what it needs to grow deep.
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It’s something I’m actively working on, especially because I want to be a better example for my kids—showing them that prayer isn’t just for big moments, but for everyday life.
That kind of constant connection doesn’t happen overnight—it’s built little by little.
Changing the Pattern with Small Habits
So how do we actually change that pattern?
In Atomic Habits, James Clear talks about improving by just 1%. Real, lasting change usually comes from small, consistent actions over time. One helpful idea is “habit stacking”—pairing something new with something you already do.
For example:
After I make my coffee, I will say a prayer
Every time I get in the car, I will take a minute to pray
You could even place a sticky note in your car that says “Pray.” Once everyone is buckled, take a moment to thank God for safety and ask for protection over your travels. This is also a great way to model prayer for your children. Praying aloud or even rotating who says the prayer each time.
The Bible encourages us:
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” — Philippians 4:6
These small moments begin to shift our hearts from worry to trust.
What Gardening Teaches Us About Prayer
This idea reminds me a lot of watering plants. If you’ve ever had a garden, you know plants need water almost every day—especially in the heat. At first, it takes effort to remember. You might set reminders or tie it to another habit: After I work out, I water the plants. Use those already created habits to help you stack a new one.
What if prayer worked the same way?
You could even pray while watering your plants—combining both habits. Water not only your garden but also your soul at the same time. Not to mention that God is the master of creating a beautiful world around us, so what better way to pray and talk with him than when you are taking care of his world.
Growing Deep Roots
When plants are young, they need frequent, light watering. As they grow, they need deeper watering so their roots can stretch down and become strong.
“So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live your lives in Him, rooted and built up in Him, strengthened in the faith…”
Just like plants, we aren’t meant to stay shallow. God wants our roots to grow deep. He wants us to build relationships, and one of the best ways to do that is by talking with him and listening to the Holy Spirit within us. One of the best ways is reading his word (the Bible) and creating a conversation with him about what you are reading.
Prayer often starts simple:
“Thank you, God”
“Help me today”
But over time, those small prayers grow into deeper conversations. Like roots reaching deeper into the soil, our faith becomes stronger and more resilient.
“That person is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season…”
When we stay connected to God daily, we are nourished in ways we may not even see right away. Very few things happen overnight that are truly meaningful. It takes time to nourish our lives and to see the benefits of what we have worked hard at.
Even in gardening, covering the soil with mulch helps retain moisture and protect growth. In our spiritual lives, we can “cover” our days with Scripture, gratitude, and quiet moments with God to keep our hearts from drying out. What ways are you going to help remember to nourish your Holy Spirit?
Jesus reminds us:
“Abide in Me, and I in you… neither can you bear fruit unless you abide in Me.” — John 15:4
Making Prayer Part of Everyday Life
There are tools that make watering easier—timers, drip systems, routines. We can apply those same ideas to prayer:
Set reminders on your phone
Leave sticky notes where you’ll see them
Build prayer into habits you already have
The goal is to make prayer feel natural—not forced, but part of the rhythm of your day.
Because the truth is, we often think, I don’t have time right now. But even in the busiest moments, there is always time for a short, sincere prayer.
And God hears every one:
“The Lord is near to all who call on Him… in truth.” — Psalm 145:18
Start Small, Grow Deep
Start small. Stay consistent. Let it grow.
Just like watering a garden, what you nurture daily will deepen over time—and eventually, it will sustain you in ways you didn’t expect.
Tips for putting into practice
Pair Prayer with Watering
As you water each plant, say a short prayer:
One plant = one person (family, friend, neighbor)
Or one plant = one gratitude
This keeps prayer focused and easy to remember.
Add a Verse to Your Routine
Keep a small card, notebook, or phone note with a Bible verse near your plants. Read it before or after watering.
Try: “He is like a tree planted by streams of water…” — Psalm 1:3
Let Scripture shape your thoughts as you care for your garden.
Set a “Water & Pray” Time
Choose a consistent time each day:
Morning watering = start your day with God
Evening watering = reflect and give thanks
Consistency helps it become second nature.
🎧 Listen While You Water
Play:
A short devotional
Worship music
An audio Bible
This turns a simple task into a time of spiritual growth.
🙏 Practice Short, Simple Prayers
Don’t overcomplicate it. While watering, try:
“God, help me grow today.”
“Thank You for this day.”
“Give me patience and wisdom.”
Small prayers build the habit.
Use Growth as a Reminder
As you see plants grow, reflect:
Am I growing spiritually?
Where do I need deeper roots?
Let physical growth point you back to spiritual growth.
Keep a Garden Prayer Journal
Write down:
Prayer requests while watering
Things you’re thankful for
What God is teaching you
Even a few lines a day makes a difference.
Build in Listening Time
After watering, pause for 1–2 minutes:
Sit quietly
Reflect on your verse
Ask, “God, what do You want me to notice today?”
Prayer isn’t just speaking—it’s listening too.
Use Visual Reminders
Place a small cross or stone near your plants
Add a sticky note that says “Pray”
Use a phone reminder labeled “Water & Pray”
These cues make it easier to stay consistent.
Go Deeper Over Time
Start small, but grow:
Begin with 1-minute prayers
Add Scripture reading
Extend time as it becomes natural
Just like plants, your prayer life will deepen with consistency.
